Thankfully my mother-in-law, Esther, took off work and was coming to help me today. Sydney laid around all morning and felt horrible. Poor things, they were not themselves today. Lunch time rolled around and I fixed Ramen noodles in hopes that they would eat something. Needless to say, they didn't eat. Landon cried and was really upset. Esther was holding him while we were trying to get the others to eat. In an instant he threw up all over her. It was everywhere! So, he had to get a bath and I had to get Esther some clothes. I changed all the bed clothes and disinfected their mattresses. We got them down for their nap and they didn't make a peep.
The rest of the day was filled with more of the same. I am exhausted and so is my mother-in-law. The kids are safely in bed and sleeping soundly. I know tomorrow is probably going to be filled with poop, puke, laundry, and baths. Everything I just described doesn't compare to what I witnessed tonight.
At 5:00 this evening I left for a memorial service. One week ago, November 6, Mason Wyatt was stillborn. My cousin was 34 weeks pregnant expecting a Christmas baby. She noticed that Mason wasn't moving like usual and called the doctor. She went in to be checked and they couldn't find a heartbeat. That was that, in an instant their baby was gone. She was admitted and gave birth 36 hours later. 3lbs 13oz and perfect.
So, I may have a hard few weeks. Filled with poop and crying, but I still have my babies. I have five healthy babies. This Thanksgiving I have so much to be thankful for. Rob and I are so blessed. I can't even begin to understand or imagine what it is like to loose a child. Jeremy,Kali, and Crystal, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Nothing can make it better right now, but you will make it through this. Until then, surround yourself with everything that is good in your lives. Friends and family will be there every step. Mason was such a lucky kid to be loved so much. His life was short, but he was here for a reason. One day, you will be able to use this experience to help someone else. I love you guys and am praying for you.
5 comments:
I'm so sorry for the tough days that you've had. What a blessing your mother in law has been! Have you considered taking them off all food except for clear liquids until their systems have a chance to settle down? I've been told that can really help.
Take care of yourself.
I am so sorry your kiddos are sick. I agree with ginnyberry--you probably shouldn't be feeding the kids solids, but having the kiddos drink sports drinks, i.e. Gatorade and pedialyte to restore their electrolytes. I don't think Top Ramen is a good idea, even if the kiddos love it..it is loaded with sodium, which I am not sure is good for sick kiddos. Take care, Laurie
Did the kids get their rotavirus vaccine yet? If not, you might take one in for a diagnosis... there is a distinct smell... your doctor will know right away. You don't want to give them the vaccine if they've already had the real thing. My three had it at the same time and ended up in the hospital for IV fluid...they couldn't even keep clear liquid down. Sorry you (and they) have to go through this.
aww Emily i'm so sorry your going through this,we just got over a three week flu/headcolds and it was awful because in the end i ended up getting it and i usually never get sick.
I ahve found that children's gravol does wonders when they have the flu,it does make them sleepy but it cures the flu or at least it does with my kids.
All I can say is to Lysol EVERYTHING! You need to get it under control before it spreads to you as well! Good Luck! Cathy
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